I am, and always have been, a list maker. I leave any place I've ever been strewn with a million scrap pieces of paper and sticky notes with things like "forward cold laundry, fold cold laundry, start diaper laundry, clean white pot, empty dishwasher, refill dishwasher, tidy living room, clean toilet, clean shower, clean sink, write in the blog..." and so on. My lists are usually down to the most minute detail, because otherwise I find myself standing in the middle of a room, not knowing where to start.
But the problem with that is that I never finish a list. There's just too much detail in them, and so it can leave me feeling defeated at the end of the day, buried under a mountain of un-done to-do's. So, as of today, I'm instituting a new system: the One-Thing-To-Do List. Each day, I will only allow myself to put ONE thing on my to-do list, and if I accomplish that, then I everything else will be gravy. Of course, I'll still have a mental list of all the other shit that needs to get done (take out the trash, vacuum, wash k'tan baby carrier, dishwasher the bottles,...) so it's going to be a bit of a learning curve, letting myself off with doing only one thing. But I think I can manage. Today, it was take Ebba for her first swim. CHECK accomplished. :) Tomorrow, it will be doing the laundry (this is a bit of a cheat, because there is cold, hot, AND diaper laundry to do. But I'll give myself a pass if I get just one of those done. :) )
Because I'm such a list-maker, I'm still going to have a running list of all of the things I would like to possibly do, if I get time. Each day, I'll pick one thing off that list, for the One Thing To Do, and in my spare time, I might pick another little thing from the list. :)
I will keep you all posted on how it goes!
How do you all keep abreast of the bazillion things you have to do as a (ugh) responsible adult?